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July 12, 2016 – Dating coach, Pouline Middleton, did a little experiment.
Single and disappointed with her love life and the love life of others, she went looking for her top three qualifications in an ideal partner: A lover, a handyman, and a communicator.
By speaking up front with her potential mates as to what she was looking for, they were more honest with their priorities. This allowed “reality to play a much larger role that romance.”
Thus, a more conscious approach to dating kicked in.
Our interview with Pouline is excellent in its entirety. Everyone looking for a partner should consider the wisdom in her new, unorthodox approach.
Her book is called “One Woman Three Men,” and you can buy it here.
Formal Bio:
Dating coach Pouline Middleton was deeply disappointed by her love life.
We’ve all been there at one time or another. For Pouline, it was a divorce, leaving her a single mother, and then a relationship with a cheating man that opened her eyes.
When Pouline decided to rethink how she dated, and make a list of all the aspects of having a mate that were important to her. Turns out her list had 26 items. She culled them down to just three areas: a man to talk with about not only small things, but also the meaning of life; a man to be intimate with; and a man to handle the practical things such as handy man tasks. That’s when the conscious approach to dating kicked in.
Pouline decided to take the pressure off and super-charged aspect of dating to “find the one.” She made up her mind to date three different men, one for each area that was important to her. She began a very transparent search online. Every man she connected with knew her plan and needed to state which area he wished to be considered for. The interactions were fun, funny and profound. Pouline experienced this conscious dating exercise for a year and a half and then found the man who met all of her needs, and they married in 2013.
“One Woman Three Men is a fun read,” says Middleton. “But under the humor is a serious look at bringing our highest consciousness to modern love and sex.”
A native of Denmark, the country that seems to always be out in front with ideas that can change the world, Pouline’s book took off right away and a new career was born for her as a love coach.
Since creating her conscious dating model, which she calls Modern Love was born, Pouline has coached hundreds of people to get in touch with their three most important area, whatever they may be. Her process also works for men seeking women and same sex couples.
Pouline Middleton has been a Modern Love coach since 2010. She was born and lives in Denmark. She holds a M. Sc. in Economics and has worked extensively around the world. She worked for several companies in sales and marketing until she decided to become a coach. “One Woman Three Men” can be ordered on Amazon, at any bookstore worldwide and is currently available in paperback, Kindle and iBook format.
Listen to “One Woman Three Men with Pouline Middleton 07/12/16” on Spreaker.
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